Bedwetting affects many children, teens, and even some adults. It can be frustrating. But it’s often not a sign of a major problem. Most children become dry at night between 3 and 5 years of age.
Is something wrong?
Likely not. In most cases, bedwetting is not due to a physical problem. For many kids who wet the bed, their bladders simply need more time to mature. Some kids also sleep so deeply that they don’t wake up when they need to use the bathroom. If a child wets the bed after being dry for a while, the cause is often a lifestyle change, such as starting school. Or it may be due to a stressful or traumatic event or sickness.
What can we do?
Bedwetting is not your child’s fault. Getting mad or upset won’t help. But don’t ignore the problem either. Instead, work together to cope with it. Start by seeing your child's health care provider. This way, health problems that may be causing bedwetting can be ruled out.
Questions that may be asked
Your child’s health care provider may ask these questions:
-
How often does your child urinate? How much?
-
What color is your child’s urine?
-
Are there any symptoms while urinating, such as burning or pain?
-
Has your child had any constipation or daytime accidents?
-
Does your child have any health problems?
-
Did any other family members wet their beds?
-
Has bedwetting affected your child’s self-esteem or relationships with other kids?
The provider may also ask about sleep patterns.
Your child’s evaluation
An exam will be done to look for physical problems. Your child’s urine may be tested for infection. You and your child may be asked to keep a log of their urinary patterns for a few days.
Featured in
